Power To Decide
Every human in this world from onset until now is trying to live a life full of success. Each wants to have a status and name in History. This trend is like to carry on until the very end. But out of billions, there are just a few who have achieved this eternal desire. Why? There are lots of factors which help you towards the ultimate glory but the most important is power to decide. Decision making power and then sticking to it even in worst of circumstances is what keeps you in the hunt.
Quotidian Dilemma:
The most common issue with 99% of people is, they can’t take their decisions freely. Do they always seem to search for someone to guide them about what to do? They are always trying to hide behind someone. The thought prevailing to this scenario is that they are afraid of failure and always trying to blame someone else for their failure. Our social norms also suppress the power to decide. Everyone is bound to follow social norms set by their parents, relatives, teachers or even neighbors. What do you want to study? What you want to become? Which girl to marry? Which career to choose? You are not allowed to take a free decision. This continuous suppression makes you surrender to circumstances and creates a fear of failure. So, to begin the journey towards success, there is always a need for a dream and to follow the dream, you need to learn the art of decision making.
What and When to Decide:
What decisions are you going to make depends upon what you want to achieve in your life? This is a big question, so take your time. Don’t haste in making a decision. First find your desire, your real dream, your passion and once you found it. Take your final decision and start your sincere and dedicated efforts. But the most important factor is that in what circumstances or mood you are in while taking the decision. You have to make sure that there is no element of haste, anger or any other emotional aspect while taking the decision. Decision made under emotional circumstances destroys any logic or reason behind your decision. A Great Scholar has quoted
“Fury is a lion, which eats your future”. (W.A.Wasif)Walk on Thrones to get Roses:
Success is not a piece of cake in the plate ready to eat. You need to work, try and suffer a lot before reaching your destination. There is one thing to mention that success without effort happens very rarely but it takes away the taste of struggle to achieve your goal. Most of the people while seeing Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Abraham Lincon, and Michael Jordan desire to become like them but they are not ready to give scarifies which all of these and other successful personalities give during their journey to this success. Success is built on a pile of failures. Power to decide indicates that once you made the correct decision after finding your passion and real desire, you must stick with it even you have to face the worst. Society will be against you as you are trying to rebel. You are trying to go against its norms and rules. You are trying to take free decisions. Even if you are doing this to no harm but still it will happen because they will not understand. 90% of Scholars, Scientists, saints, and achievers were once declared ‘Insane’ by society. Let this not affect your ambitions.
“Being understood is not the most essential thing in life” (Jodie Foster)
You must keep yourself on track facing all the hurdles with a smile. You must keep in your mind that all the problems and failures are piling up your status, the higher the pile, the greater the success.
