How hard work leads to success
Showing posts with label Success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Success. Show all posts
Saturday, March 16, 2019
Saturday, February 9, 2019
Power To Decide
Every human in this world from onset until now is trying to live a life full of success. Each wants to have a status and name in History. This trend is like to carry on until the very end. But out of billions, there are just a few who have achieved this eternal desire. Why? There are lots of factors which help you towards the ultimate glory but the most important is power to decide. Decision making power and then sticking to it even in worst of circumstances is what keeps you in the hunt.
Quotidian Dilemma:
The most common issue with 99% of people is, they can’t take their decisions freely. Do they always seem to search for someone to guide them about what to do? They are always trying to hide behind someone. The thought prevailing to this scenario is that they are afraid of failure and always trying to blame someone else for their failure. Our social norms also suppress the power to decide. Everyone is bound to follow social norms set by their parents, relatives, teachers or even neighbors. What do you want to study? What you want to become? Which girl to marry? Which career to choose? You are not allowed to take a free decision. This continuous suppression makes you surrender to circumstances and creates a fear of failure. So, to begin the journey towards success, there is always a need for a dream and to follow the dream, you need to learn the art of decision making.
What and When to Decide:
What decisions are you going to make depends upon what you want to achieve in your life? This is a big question, so take your time. Don’t haste in making a decision. First find your desire, your real dream, your passion and once you found it. Take your final decision and start your sincere and dedicated efforts. But the most important factor is that in what circumstances or mood you are in while taking the decision. You have to make sure that there is no element of haste, anger or any other emotional aspect while taking the decision. Decision made under emotional circumstances destroys any logic or reason behind your decision. A Great Scholar has quoted
“Fury is a lion, which eats your future”. (W.A.Wasif)Walk on Thrones to get Roses:
Success is not a piece of cake in the plate ready to eat. You need to work, try and suffer a lot before reaching your destination. There is one thing to mention that success without effort happens very rarely but it takes away the taste of struggle to achieve your goal. Most of the people while seeing Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Abraham Lincon, and Michael Jordan desire to become like them but they are not ready to give scarifies which all of these and other successful personalities give during their journey to this success. Success is built on a pile of failures. Power to decide indicates that once you made the correct decision after finding your passion and real desire, you must stick with it even you have to face the worst. Society will be against you as you are trying to rebel. You are trying to go against its norms and rules. You are trying to take free decisions. Even if you are doing this to no harm but still it will happen because they will not understand. 90% of Scholars, Scientists, saints, and achievers were once declared ‘Insane’ by society. Let this not affect your ambitions.
“Being understood is not the most essential thing in life” (Jodie Foster)
You must keep yourself on track facing all the hurdles with a smile. You must keep in your mind that all the problems and failures are piling up your status, the higher the pile, the greater the success.
Thursday, February 7, 2019
HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF FAILURE
In the hustle bustle of this world, there is an unseen competition among the human race. Everyone is trying to supersede others to achieve social, spiritual, economical satisfaction. Some people acquire what they aim and many wonders on the steep hill towards the ultimate destination. The biggest threat accompanies them throughout the journey, Fear of Failure
Law of Nature:
It is an obvious law of nature that there is an opposite to everything, For example; day/night, war/peace, joy/grief, hope/dismay and so on. In the same manner, where there is a success, there is the failure, as success is an obvious reality; failure is also a bitter truth. The fear of failure is the biggest hurdle in the way of success. Hefty research has been done to conclude that 99% of successful people have failed more than twice before making the mark. Many people do not try just for the fear of failure. Failure is the harsh reality which cannot be compromised at any stage of life. Here arises a question, if failure is must than how do you succeed?
The formula of Success:
The formula of success will be explained by two simple examples of the recent past so that you may know that failure is the most important ingredient of success.
Thomas Edison who invented the bulb failed a thousand times before being able to achieve the invention.
Michael Jordon missed around nine thousand shots, lost almost three hundred games for his side and missed twenty-six winning shots during his career. Yet he is renowned as the most famous and reliable player in the history of basketball.
How heaven did they do that after such failures? Why they were not disappointed? There would have been a lot of criticism on them, how we're able to avoid it? The simple answer is that they took their failure as steps towards success. As quoted by Thomas Edison,
“I have not failed. I have just found ten thousand ways that won’t work”
Win-Win:
So, it is vivid that to achieve the success you have to go through the tough phase of struggle and failures. It is better to fail while trying instead of not trying. You must overcome the fear of failure and give your best even if you fail.
“When we give ourselves permission to fail we at the same time give ourselves permission to excel “. (Elosie Risted)
History reckons names of people who did not bend in front of fear of failure and kept trying even after failing continuously, for example, Winston Churchill, Barak Obama, Abraham Lincon, Imran Khan, Oprah, Will Smith. It is on you to live an ordinary static life with boring daily routine and reasons to complain about your fate. Or you can live a life full of new ideas with nothing to lose, putting efforts, awakening with new determination every morning, defeating the fear of failure and knitting each failure into the embodiment of success and that’s the win-win situation.
Thursday, January 24, 2019
WHAT IS SUCCESS IN LIFE?
There is a lot of motivational chirping around regarding success e.g. How to be successful? What changes are required to be successful? Where to get tips? Researchers and thinkers made a lot of effort to answer these questions. Hundreds and thousands of books are written and video lectures are viral regarding this issue. All of which are very helpful and informative but the major issue/problem remains unsolved that is WHAT IS SUCCESS?
Let us get some normal views/ideas about success.- Success is to get wealth.
- To get a good job.
- To have authority.
- Have a beautiful wife, house & luxury cars.
- To complete a degree with an excellent GPA.
The Basic Problem:
These are usual measures of success that we hear and view people struggling day n night to achieve. Here is a big question. Do they all succeed? Are they happy to get any of the above-mentioned measures, which they suffered for? You have led a life full of tiresome efforts to have the title of a billionaire at the front page in Forbes, Sacrificed your day & nights, left your social life and worked more to make your business grow bigger. You were persistent and resilient that no failure was able to push you back. Now you have done it but there is some emptiness inside. You are still worried for some reasons. It is like you missed something very important far behind while driven on the road to success. Why? You have achieved what you wanted or you just followed the norms of society and forgot what you really wanted to be?
Historical Ref:
Human beings are most complex structured as well as authoritative creation in the universe. It is the embodiment of such attributes that sometimes are unbelievable. Mao Zedong, A great Chinese leader but in fact, just a single human being, changed a lazy nation into one of the top economies of the world. Hitler was the main reason for World War II and massacred so many people just for his wish to rule the world. Steve Jobs created Apple. They were all able to do such unbelievable (right or wrong) things/events to name themselves in history is because they found their inner self. They were able to find what they really wanted and that made them extraordinary. Everyone has that one will of doing something extraordinary but there are very few in the history that in fact, did extraordinary work.
Real Success:
So, Success is not to be what others want you to be. Success is what you want from yourself. It can be anything from the above-mentioned points or something else. You can't find it in success stories of others or books. It's within you. You have to find your inner peace. Just take your time, relax, kick out all the other factors from your mind and just listen to the voice of your inner self and extract what is your real aim. Once you are able to detect what your real need is? Your journey to real success will begin at the same moment and there will be no fear of failure as well as no regrets after achievement. That will be real SUCCESS.
